The Records That Usually Matter — and Who Has the Right to Request Them
If you were hurt, the records that usually matter include medical records from the treating hospitals and clinics, school or university incident report numbers, police report numbers, photos and video from the event or the scene, the names and contact details of people who saw what happened, and written communications about the event, such as group chats, emails and texts.
Two federal privacy laws affect who may ask for some of these records.
Education records fall under the federal student privacy law often called FERPA. Its text at 20 U.S.C. § 1232g(d) reads: "whenever a student has attained eighteen years of age, or is attending an institution of postsecondary education, the permission or consent required of and the rights accorded to the parents of the student shall thereafter only be required of and accorded to the student." The U.S. Department of Education calls such a person an "eligible student" and states that once a student becomes one, "the rights afforded his or her parents under FERPA transfer to that student," as its page Who is an eligible student? explains.
In practice, for a college student, the right to request school records generally belongs to the student, not the parent. The federal regulation at 34 C.F.R. § 99.5 adds that a school is not prevented from disclosing records to a parent without the student's written consent when the disclosure meets conditions listed elsewhere in those rules. So a parent's access to a college student's file usually runs through the student's own consent, apart from those listed conditions.
Health records follow a separate rule. Under 45 C.F.R. § 164.524(a)(1), a person generally "has a right of access to inspect and obtain a copy of protected health information about the individual in a designated record set," with stated exceptions that include psychotherapy notes and information compiled in reasonable anticipation of, or for use in, a civil, criminal or administrative action or proceeding. Whether a parent can act for a student depends on the rules for personal representatives in 45 C.F.R. § 164.502, which generally treat a parent as the representative of an unemancipated minor, subject to exceptions, and which depend on applicable law for an adult. The site's page on medical records in hazing claims covers that access right in more depth.
Medical files, messages and the names of other students are shared directly with an attorney, not through a web form.